I read mavia's blog...n realized what she got is very meaningful...so just wanna share with everyone...
one should not dwell on the flaws of the other party.. neither should 1 compare him/her to/with anything/anyone else. if u love the person you juz wanna be happy with the person and give the person the best.. you will onli appreciate the good points and make the flaws transparent.
i find this true though... hmmm.. but some ppl juz simply dun get this point.. when u tend to compare, the person will starts to feel inferior and then insecure.. when someone starts to feel insecure, the person will starts to think alot of "IFs" and get suspicious to wat ever the person does..
the worst relationship is Complicated relationship.. whereby 2 parties are more then frenz but not a couple.. it might b good but in a way bad coz if u starts thinking abut it, u will be lost... totally lost..
everyone when comes into a relationship, tends to get selfish... no 1 would wanna share their partners.. no 1 can tolerate their partners 2 timing..
if a couple truly loves each other, they will b most willing to go thru all difficulties together.. rejections from frenz and closest ppl..