There are moments when we feel sad or depressed because we are facing a lot of challenges or problems in life and not everybody can take it. I don’t deny that there are burdens heaved on our shoulders. All of us have burdens. But the weight of the burdens differs from individual to another. There is only one way for us to look at it – look at things positively although that particular moment may be too negative for us. It’s easier said than done definitely but do remember that for every challenge that you’re facing; it might be a blessing in disguise.

Our lives are revolving all the time and as we move on other people move on too. We cannot stop a person from not moving on with their life as it’s not our right to do so. In life we don’t have any logical explanations for it because not everything can be proved by doing mere tests or research. For example, experiences in life cannot be proved by doing tests as we have to go through that moment ourselves. As a good friend once told me, life is like balancing accounts and it’s a marathon. Yes, I do agree with him that life is indeed a marathon. The more we walk through our pathway of life, the more we will gain and learn from our mistakes.

Have you heard anyone saying this before?

If you love someone, you have to learn how to let them go as well.

In my point of view, I feel that, that phrase is true because things will not turn out the way we want it to be sometimes. You may love the person and feel like giving him/her the best of everything but in return he/she may not love you just like the way you do. Acceptance in life is important. And letting go is vital too. Every one has to learn how to deal and accept such circumstances.

There are several things that you should know and I feel that it’s true too. I may be wrong but when you think about it carefully it’s nonetheless true.

All of us have to remember that we cannot force someone to love us vice versa. Love will be meaningless if force is imposed upon it. Also, we may feel triumphant when we manage to get the person whom we love to be beside us but actually we are not because that person’s heart may not be with you although he/she is with you physically. Do know that when someone is taking a step back from your relationship with him/her, there is no absolute point for you to hang on to it because in the end nothing will come out of it unless miracles happen. But if miracles do not happen, you will only be hurting yourself at the end of the day. True or false?

Placing and having hope is neither wrong nor impossible because we tend to seek and look for hope when any solutions could not be met. What about placing hope in a person whom you’ve learnt to love a lot but that person doesn’t seem to have the feeling about you anymore?

I’d say hope does help sometimes but it depends on the individual that we are placing our hope in as well. If they are aware of it then it may be a good sign but if they don’t then I guess it’s time for you to move on and take the hope off. It hurts I know but what can we do right?

All of us should be thankful with what we have now. Because being thankful will help a lot and we will not except more than what we have. We do expect things in life but don’t expect too much because you may feel disappointed in the end.

Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn’t learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn’t learn a little, at least we didn’t get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn’t die; so let us all be thankful